"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Even in 1918 they knew American women were crappy

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At least the author had a happy ending:

In 1918, Paul Popenoe and Roswell Hill Johnson wrote “Applied Eugenics,” to explain “the practical means by which society may encourage the reproduction of superior persons and discourage that of inferiors.” It became the most widely assigned college textbook on the topic; it was also translated into German. Where Grant blamed “swarms of Polish Jews” and the like, and “half-breeds,” Popenoe and Johnson blamed college girls. Education, they warned, “is tending toward race suicide”: “Many a college girl of the finest innate qualities, who sincerely desires to enter matrimony, is unable to find a husband of her own class, simply because she has been rendered so cold and unattractive, so overstuffed intellectually and starved emotionally, that a typical man does not desire to spend the rest of his life in her company.” (Popenoe was, at the time, unmarried. Two years later, at the age of thirty-two, he married a nineteen-year-old dancer.)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear Luthor,
You keep trotting these interesting finds out....I enjoyed this one,yeah.... bet he had an interesting few years with the Dancer....I have found after protracted exposure to several dancers (Not all at once I assure you,nothing kinky about the old Scarra)that these Women are very good in bed,fit,strong legs and coordinated,a good combination...even better is a Dancer who works out,later on in a relationship,being used to the pain and rigour of repetition exercise,she will tend to turn on tricks for you,without feeling its a chore or an ordeal.
 

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Oddly enough I got it off one of the posts (can't find the link right now) from Christian woman's blog. There are a number of blogs like this out there. These women are anti-feminist and anti-modern woman. There are posts by about women submitting to their husbands, etc.

Yes, I will read just about anything on the internet.
 

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EDIT: To keep things in perspective with that girl's site, remember in 1918 we saw the utter failure of male leadership as they sacrificed millions of young men in grinding trench warfare for basically nothing. Eugenics and racism resulted in the Holocaust. When you think about the good old days... maybe they weren't. Just sayin'
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There is so much cool stuff out there on various blogs right now. Girls are getting involved in the discussion too, mostly through commenting though some are starting to write. It's a very interesting time since it's reclaiming the public discourse back from corporate media, which is a good thing.

This guy posts tons of links all the time if you want to go deeper.

www.inmalafide.com
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wait_out said:
EDIT: To keep things in perspective with that girl's site, remember in 1918 we saw the utter failure of male leadership as they sacrificed millions of young men in grinding trench warfare for basically nothing. Eugenics and racism resulted in the Holocaust. When you think about the good old days... maybe they weren't. Just sayin'

Uh.. ok, but what does this have to do with anything? There was never an argument made that things were better in the past or that there were any "good old days". The only thing argued was that feminism was see even back then for the danger it is.

Because of human nature there never was utopia, and there never can be utopia.
 
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