"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Even I'm puzzled, why would an old ex reach out from nearly a year ago??

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Interesting situation. I've posted before, and even I am perplexed a bit. Dated for several months, I went into the hospital for kidney stones, she basically went on vacation and I ended it. She reached out wishing me a happy birthday a few months ago, never responded. She just texted me a few hours ago wishing me well. I know for a fact she's seeing another dude. They're going to a wedding together for her sister in Florida. Yea, she hotter than the current two I am seeing, but I just cannot get over the fact the way she acted when I was in the hospital and surgery. I knew she'd reach out on my BD, but now, very strange.
 

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Why? You could probably come up with 1,000,001 reasons and you still probably wouldn’t guess it. In my experience the chicks I dated that I didn’t think had much interest in me, they were the ones to reach out months to years later. The ones I thought would reach out I never heard from again.
 
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Robert28 said:
Why? You could probably come up with 1,000,001 reasons and you still probably wouldn’t guess it. In my experience the chicks I dated that I didn’t think had much interest in me, they were the ones to reach out months to years later. The ones I thought would reach out I never heard from again.
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If I didn't respond prior, why would I respond now? I was going to say I'm well, hope the same for you. But I am concerned that would open up a pandoras box. After her actions, I have zero trust in her. The only thing she has is her looks.. I think she's still shocked that I walked away. Not sure.
 
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RickTheToad said:
If I didn't respond prior, why would I respond now? I was going to say I'm well, hope the same for you. But I am concerned that would open up a pandoras box. After her actions, I have zero trust in her. The only thing she has is her looks.. I think she's still shocked that I walked away. Not sure.
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I remember your thread about her, she is far from gfmaterial.

Things with new bf are not going to well.and she is i need of a back up plan.
Or the fact that you ended things with her,, had an effect on her self esteem. She is probably not used to being dump.

Either way stay far away imo
 
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RickTheToad said:
If I didn't respond prior, why would I respond now? I was going to say I'm well, hope the same for you. But I am concerned that would open up a pandoras box. After her actions, I have zero trust in her. The only thing she has is her looks.. I think she's still shocked that I walked away. Not sure.
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I’m honestly so bad with keeping numbers straight that I probably wouldn’t recognize an ex’s number if they text me out of the blue. A few are blocked but the rest are all deleted and I probably wouldn’t be able to guess who it was unless they told me their name.lol

You’ll drive yourself crazy wondering why she’s reaching out. She probably didn’t even know why, could be bored or could be looking to branch back to you. Could be wanting you to help her move.lol
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lamath said:
I remember your thread about her, she is far from gfmaterial.

Things with new bf are not going to well.and she is i need of a back up plan.
Or the fact that you ended things with her,, had an effect on her self esteem. She is probably not used to being dump.

Either way stay far away imo
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I’m honestly so bad with keeping numbers straight that I probably wouldn’t recognize an ex’s number if they text me out of the blue. A few are blocked but the rest are all deleted and I probably wouldn’t be able to guess who it was unless they told me their name.lol

You’ll drive yourself crazy wondering why she’s reaching out. She probably didn’t even know why, could be bored or could be looking to branch back to you. Could be wanting you to help her move.lol
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I cannot break my rule of taking the trash back in. Yes, that experience.. It was unreal. I was just curious In her actions.. I’ve had ladies reach out, but I do not respond and they move on. This is the second time. Strange. I told her have a good life. Her response, you too. If you want to reach out, I’m here. I even said, not a chance. Her response, well, if you do, I’m here.

Bewildered to say the least...
 
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I cannot break my rule of taking the trash back in. Yes, that experience.. It was unreal. I was just curious In her actions.. I’ve had ladies reach out, but I do not respond and they move on. This is the second time. Strange. I told her have a good life. Her response, you too. If you want to reach out, I’m here. I even said, not a chance. Her response, well, if you do, I’m here.

Bewildered to say the least...
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Women don’t take rejection lightly like men do. She’s not used to guys walking away from her, specially if she’s good looking. So therefor she’s either trying to get even with you on that matter, or the other things the guys mentioned here
 
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