Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Even if you are a great scientist ahead of your time, if you are short, dark and/or fat, you probably will be forgotten

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Considered "one of the greatest unsung scientists of all time", he is the first person known to have proposed the existence of black holes, and the first to have suggested that earthquakes travelled in (seismic) waves.
According to one science journalist, "a few specifics of Michell's work really do sound like they are ripped from the pages of a twentieth century astronomy textbook." The American Physical Society (APS) described Michell as being "so far ahead of his scientific contemporaries that his ideas languished in obscurity, until they were re-invented more than a century later".
Too ugly to have anyone bother having a portrait painting done of him:
There is no surviving portrait of Michell; he is said to have been "a little short Man, of a black Complexion, and fat".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not a scientist, but Socrates was one ugly phucker
 

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If you google "john michell" literally the first search is a portrait of him. Why do you guys do this to yourselves? To justify not improving yourselves? I don't get it
 

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"I know more about black holes than you ever will, son!"

 

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If you google "john michell" literally the first search is a portrait of him. Why do you guys do this to yourselves? To justify not improving yourselves? I don't get it
There's no need to go out of your way to find extreme examples when the decline is surrounding us is obvious, but there's also no need to have an unrealistic risk/reward and pro/con analyses. Some self-improvement is necessary, but excess self-improvement is slavery to an enslaving world. What's the reward, exactly?

Game is all about working smarter, not harder.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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