"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Even if you are a great scientist ahead of your time, if you are short, dark and/or fat, you probably will be forgotten

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Considered "one of the greatest unsung scientists of all time", he is the first person known to have proposed the existence of black holes, and the first to have suggested that earthquakes travelled in (seismic) waves.
According to one science journalist, "a few specifics of Michell's work really do sound like they are ripped from the pages of a twentieth century astronomy textbook." The American Physical Society (APS) described Michell as being "so far ahead of his scientific contemporaries that his ideas languished in obscurity, until they were re-invented more than a century later".
Too ugly to have anyone bother having a portrait painting done of him:
There is no surviving portrait of Michell; he is said to have been "a little short Man, of a black Complexion, and fat".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not a scientist, but Socrates was one ugly phucker
 

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If you google "john michell" literally the first search is a portrait of him. Why do you guys do this to yourselves? To justify not improving yourselves? I don't get it
 

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"I know more about black holes than you ever will, son!"

 

BillyPilgrim

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If you google "john michell" literally the first search is a portrait of him. Why do you guys do this to yourselves? To justify not improving yourselves? I don't get it
There's no need to go out of your way to find extreme examples when the decline is surrounding us is obvious, but there's also no need to have an unrealistic risk/reward and pro/con analyses. Some self-improvement is necessary, but excess self-improvement is slavery to an enslaving world. What's the reward, exactly?

Game is all about working smarter, not harder.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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