"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After reading day 2 of the 6 week bible reading. I read an article which said that I should write all the things that I want to improve or I don't like about myself. So I decided to write it here so maybe someone can help me with some of them. Here it.
1.Lazy
2.Scared to aproach girls
3.Don't tend to meet new people unless I'm introduced
4.Lack of confidence,selfesteem,movition
5.Kind of 2 faced. Like one minute I'm having fun have alot of confidence trying to act like A DJ. Then next min I'm quiet and acting like a Dj. It usually pertains to people I hang out with usually.
6.Quiet in big groups unless I know most of the people in the group very well.
7.Never had a gf
8. Only kissed one girl
9.Shy sometimes
10. Worry to much of what others think
11.Can't really talk to my parents.
12.Think I know best of everything
13. Don't go out as much scared to ask my parents.
14. I have too many fears


So happy its summer cause this is the year I'm going to change to be a better person. Waiting all year for summer so I can change.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You pretty much match me from two years ago!

But you're 16, I was 18.

When it comes to working on your social skills, do this: go somewhere where you don't know anyone. You'll have to be outgoing there to survive. Some kind of a camp perhaps?

How is your haircut? "Normal" and boring? Go to a hairdresser and say that you want something new and good. Let him choose the style. It helps a lot.

And work on yourself. Learn, study, even work. In your age the best thing that you can do is focusing on your developement. Do this and you'll be money when you hit 20 or 25.
 
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