"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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After reading day 2 of the 6 week bible reading. I read an article which said that I should write all the things that I want to improve or I don't like about myself. So I decided to write it here so maybe someone can help me with some of them. Here it.
1.Lazy
2.Scared to aproach girls
3.Don't tend to meet new people unless I'm introduced
4.Lack of confidence,selfesteem,movition
5.Kind of 2 faced. Like one minute I'm having fun have alot of confidence trying to act like A DJ. Then next min I'm quiet and acting like a Dj. It usually pertains to people I hang out with usually.
6.Quiet in big groups unless I know most of the people in the group very well.
7.Never had a gf
8. Only kissed one girl
9.Shy sometimes
10. Worry to much of what others think
11.Can't really talk to my parents.
12.Think I know best of everything
13. Don't go out as much scared to ask my parents.
14. I have too many fears


So happy its summer cause this is the year I'm going to change to be a better person. Waiting all year for summer so I can change.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey, Your not doing to bad. Most people don't even know there weaknesses. Props for even trying your on the right track.

Alright if I were you I would attack one weakness a week.

You sound kind of shy so consider the following:
People care about what you think of them. If you realize that they are trying to impress you and you dont impress them then you are ahead of the game.

To work on your shyness I would practice the art of being a jack ass. **** with peoples minds. Be risky. Do something you wouldnt normally do. For example I just got home from a sports camp and last night there was a dance. Except I was about 4 years older then all the girls. Guess what I did. I challenged all the girls to a dance off. I ended up dancing for 2 and a half hours and it was awesome. I got a ton of IOI's as well.

The biggest thing I learned was girls like guys who are comfortable in any situation, like dancing in front of every one.


I know this was pretty unorginised, but im not gonna fix it so good luck.
 
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