"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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evading friend zone?

mrmoe

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I was just wondeing what everyone's thoughts are on hanging out with a girl whom you have no immediate opportunity with (bf factor) but do have a mild interest in? How do you balance between hanging out with her but not falling too deep into the friend zone (so that any future possibilities go down the crapper)?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wouldn't hang out with her and be her emotional tampon, however I would stay in loose contact with her and then make a move in if they break up.

This keeps you still in the game, still in her mind, but dosen't make you so available you fall into the "friendzone"
 

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That's what I was thinking. I haven't really hung out with her but she does seem keen on hanging out on a very casual basis with a couple other mutual friends. I guess I should've added that part, heh.
 

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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
You can't evade what you can't control.
Well said skull, if you have an intial intrest in her and you keep hangin out with her pretending to be friends.....chances are you will turn afc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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