"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Eva longora look-a-like

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Today i decided to refine my communication skills without trying any sort of kino/speed seduction/etc crap and to really see how hot a woman I could chat up. usually i go for girls that are more social and more often then not, s1uts. Needing to get over this and to go as far out of my comfort zone as possible (comfort = nightclub settings, s1uts, etc) i was determined to suck it up and JUST DO IT.
So, tying up my balls as tight as i could (an old mexican saying) i approached the hottest woman on the Chicago "L" train. i mean the one that every guy couldnt stop looking at. She was a 6'2 Eva longora look-a-like that could take your breath and your balls away in an instant. Although i was just a tad nervous, i had an advantage to my game, I just wanted to hold an interesting conversation. I wasnt looking for sex or love or anything, just to be myself and to show that any woman would love just to talk to me for me.
Guess what? had a wonderful conversation about everything from spongebob(I am addicted to the little yellow bastard) to the University of Florida (where she is getting her degree) and at the end she closed on the number. I didnt even have to ask! :up:
In short it was a great experience in confidence although she is only visiting for the day and is going home to florida in the morning.
If you think you cant get that girl sitting next to you on the train, think again. I did and it feels almost better then having had sex with her. (almost)

Bob
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great post

Thanks for this one, very true.
 

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Being phony and using tricks and traps will only lead you to chicks who FALL for tricks and traps.

You did good on this one. Let this experience become a habit for the future.
 

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BobFuest said:
Today i decided to refine my communication skills without trying any sort of kino/speed seduction/etc crap and to really see how hot a woman I could chat up. usually i go for girls that are more social and more often then not, s1uts. Needing to get over this and to go as far out of my comfort zone as possible (comfort = nightclub settings, s1uts, etc) i was determined to suck it up and JUST DO IT.
So, tying up my balls as tight as i could (an old mexican saying) i approached the hottest woman on the Chicago "L" train. i mean the one that every guy couldnt stop looking at. She was a 6'2 Eva longora look-a-like that could take your breath and your balls away in an instant. Although i was just a tad nervous, i had an advantage to my game, I just wanted to hold an interesting conversation. I wasnt looking for sex or love or anything, just to be myself and to show that any woman would love just to talk to me for me.
Guess what? had a wonderful conversation about everything from spongebob(I am addicted to the little yellow bastard) to the University of Florida (where she is getting her degree) and at the end she closed on the number. I didnt even have to ask! :up:
In short it was a great experience in confidence although she is only visiting for the day and is going home to florida in the morning.
If you think you cant get that girl sitting next to you on the train, think again. I did and it feels almost better then having had sex with her. (almost)

Bob
Good post man. Definitely inspiring. It's always good to know that you don't always have to "work" and "sweat" to get HOT women by relying on good game. I mean, but let's see if you really "get"(f*ck) her. I hope you do.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Being phony and using tricks and traps will only lead you to chicks who FALL for tricks and traps.
Absolutely.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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