"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eva longora look-a-like

BobFuest

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Today i decided to refine my communication skills without trying any sort of kino/speed seduction/etc crap and to really see how hot a woman I could chat up. usually i go for girls that are more social and more often then not, s1uts. Needing to get over this and to go as far out of my comfort zone as possible (comfort = nightclub settings, s1uts, etc) i was determined to suck it up and JUST DO IT.
So, tying up my balls as tight as i could (an old mexican saying) i approached the hottest woman on the Chicago "L" train. i mean the one that every guy couldnt stop looking at. She was a 6'2 Eva longora look-a-like that could take your breath and your balls away in an instant. Although i was just a tad nervous, i had an advantage to my game, I just wanted to hold an interesting conversation. I wasnt looking for sex or love or anything, just to be myself and to show that any woman would love just to talk to me for me.
Guess what? had a wonderful conversation about everything from spongebob(I am addicted to the little yellow bastard) to the University of Florida (where she is getting her degree) and at the end she closed on the number. I didnt even have to ask! :up:
In short it was a great experience in confidence although she is only visiting for the day and is going home to florida in the morning.
If you think you cant get that girl sitting next to you on the train, think again. I did and it feels almost better then having had sex with her. (almost)

Bob
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great post

Thanks for this one, very true.
 

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Being phony and using tricks and traps will only lead you to chicks who FALL for tricks and traps.

You did good on this one. Let this experience become a habit for the future.
 

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BobFuest said:
Today i decided to refine my communication skills without trying any sort of kino/speed seduction/etc crap and to really see how hot a woman I could chat up. usually i go for girls that are more social and more often then not, s1uts. Needing to get over this and to go as far out of my comfort zone as possible (comfort = nightclub settings, s1uts, etc) i was determined to suck it up and JUST DO IT.
So, tying up my balls as tight as i could (an old mexican saying) i approached the hottest woman on the Chicago "L" train. i mean the one that every guy couldnt stop looking at. She was a 6'2 Eva longora look-a-like that could take your breath and your balls away in an instant. Although i was just a tad nervous, i had an advantage to my game, I just wanted to hold an interesting conversation. I wasnt looking for sex or love or anything, just to be myself and to show that any woman would love just to talk to me for me.
Guess what? had a wonderful conversation about everything from spongebob(I am addicted to the little yellow bastard) to the University of Florida (where she is getting her degree) and at the end she closed on the number. I didnt even have to ask! :up:
In short it was a great experience in confidence although she is only visiting for the day and is going home to florida in the morning.
If you think you cant get that girl sitting next to you on the train, think again. I did and it feels almost better then having had sex with her. (almost)

Bob
Good post man. Definitely inspiring. It's always good to know that you don't always have to "work" and "sweat" to get HOT women by relying on good game. I mean, but let's see if you really "get"(f*ck) her. I hope you do.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Being phony and using tricks and traps will only lead you to chicks who FALL for tricks and traps.
Absolutely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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