"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are girls' fascination with them? My younger cousin, who is in her twenties, and her friends were saying that American men suck and European guys rule.


Is it all an illusion or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your younger cousin and her friends sound like a bunch of cvnts

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They're just intrigued by the unkown...perhaps they've seen one to many foreign films with the exotic european who sweet talks them in his native tongue and his sensitive ways blah blah blah
 
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America has an obsession with [certain aspects of the] british culture and british people (accent, royalty, etc.). This is what explains your cousin's perception.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think of how most Americans on here complain about American women and you got the answer to your question. It's just the other side of the same coin. In Europe though, I never here guys or girls talkin about how Americans are better than Europeans. It seems to be some kind of self-hate thing, don't know how you guys got to that messy situation and how you'll fix it. seems like a waste...
 
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Everyone loves something different.. Im Australian and women here love American men.. just like i love American women. Its just about excitement.
 
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jax871 said:
Everyone loves something different.. Im Australian and women here love American men.. just like i love American women. Its just about excitement.
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Australians seem quite succesful in Europe.
Should all men relocate? :woo:
 
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I guess women like something different, the grass is greener and all that. If an American guy went to Europe, he'd have an easy time getting chicks as well.

I'm actually European, but I live in America. Nobody notices though because I don't have an accent. Even when I tell them, it doesn't really register, only when they hear me speaking my language to someone I can tell they're impressed and there's a boost in interest. Maybe I should develop an accent haha :)

It's like how you guys feel like European girls are better than American ones, while I actually like American ones slightly more.
 
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