"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oscarxp25

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What are girls' fascination with them? My younger cousin, who is in her twenties, and her friends were saying that American men suck and European guys rule.


Is it all an illusion or what?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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btownbuck2012

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Your younger cousin and her friends sound like a bunch of cvnts

: p
 

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They're just intrigued by the unkown...perhaps they've seen one to many foreign films with the exotic european who sweet talks them in his native tongue and his sensitive ways blah blah blah
 

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America has an obsession with [certain aspects of the] british culture and british people (accent, royalty, etc.). This is what explains your cousin's perception.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Think of how most Americans on here complain about American women and you got the answer to your question. It's just the other side of the same coin. In Europe though, I never here guys or girls talkin about how Americans are better than Europeans. It seems to be some kind of self-hate thing, don't know how you guys got to that messy situation and how you'll fix it. seems like a waste...
 

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Everyone loves something different.. Im Australian and women here love American men.. just like i love American women. Its just about excitement.
 

Blusher

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jax871 said:
Everyone loves something different.. Im Australian and women here love American men.. just like i love American women. Its just about excitement.
Australians seem quite succesful in Europe.
Should all men relocate? :woo:
 

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I guess women like something different, the grass is greener and all that. If an American guy went to Europe, he'd have an easy time getting chicks as well.

I'm actually European, but I live in America. Nobody notices though because I don't have an accent. Even when I tell them, it doesn't really register, only when they hear me speaking my language to someone I can tell they're impressed and there's a boost in interest. Maybe I should develop an accent haha :)

It's like how you guys feel like European girls are better than American ones, while I actually like American ones slightly more.
 
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