Mikelo2k
Senior Don Juan
Man that was some good sh!t! Thanks Mr. Fingers!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Essence of Alpha
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Crotch Sniffer
Banned
Man, I just reread this again and am amazed at how it still has such an impact on me. IMO, this is your best post. Thank you!
Snoogans
New Member
understanding
I've been reading through almost every single piece of text nonstop for two days, and I'm finally starting to enter the mindset. Your explainations and examples have effected me like no other part of boot camp or the bible yet. Thanks
I've been reading through almost every single piece of text nonstop for two days, and I'm finally starting to enter the mindset. Your explainations and examples have effected me like no other part of boot camp or the bible yet. Thanks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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great great post man, this stuff is solid
trevor2003
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AWESOME STUFF!!!
GREAT THREAD!!
GREAT THREAD!!
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