Mikelo2k
Senior Don Juan
Man that was some good sh!t! Thanks Mr. Fingers!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Essence of Alpha
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Crotch Sniffer
Banned
Man, I just reread this again and am amazed at how it still has such an impact on me. IMO, this is your best post. Thank you!
Snoogans
New Member
understanding
I've been reading through almost every single piece of text nonstop for two days, and I'm finally starting to enter the mindset. Your explainations and examples have effected me like no other part of boot camp or the bible yet. Thanks
I've been reading through almost every single piece of text nonstop for two days, and I'm finally starting to enter the mindset. Your explainations and examples have effected me like no other part of boot camp or the bible yet. Thanks
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Don Juan
great great post man, this stuff is solid
trevor2003
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AWESOME STUFF!!!
GREAT THREAD!!
GREAT THREAD!!
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