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Jesus, man, I know you can't see it right now, but go lift heavy shyte, do it. Controlling your eating habits can be gradual. What do you do with the other 16 hours of the day besides sleep, assuming you do? That still leaves 8 hours? Do you eat 8 hours a day? do 100 pushups a day, even if you need to do them 5 at a time; at the end of a week, you'll be doing 20 at a time. Do 100 situps a day, same rule. You have to start somewhere - telling yourself, "I need to have it be this perfect setup to get started," is simply a way to procrastinate. I know its easier to live in your VR headset, but you're here to make things better aren't you?

Your genetics aren't holding you back; YOU ARE. Again you can't claim they are till you max your potential.
What I do? An assortment of various things depending on the day. That could include, washing dishes, changing mom's dentures, attending to my mother's wishes, prayer, looking at worship/praise videos, looking at Christian teaching content, sometimes, just trying to catch my breath. This leaves only break-times at work (which they don't really give you anything, more like 10 minutes of personal time which is often used taking emergency calls or using the washroom if it's bad, or yelling inside the meditation room if I'm feeling frustrated with the quality of calls). In terms of commute times in train, can't do pushups in the train can I?

Most of the time where I'm available is in the morning, which can get busy real fast if I have to do grocery shopping for the family, be around when the caregiver comes to take care of mom and give her a shower, financial managment, you name it, then get organized for work and pack a lunch.

You mentioned VR-headset? Yeah, I use it twice a week at 15 minutes each time. After 3 consecutive days at work, especially at a call center job, you start getting "wear and tear" over the week. A 15 minute VR-break is taken which where I have various 360 degree travel videos. Last time I visited the Gold Coast of Australia and some other parts of Australia. The previous time it was Vedero beach in Cuba. So I love travelling and that helps create a psychological distance from the work as it felt I went somewhere the next time I show up to work.

Hope that answers your question. In terms of if there is time to do pushups? This place is a total mess and there is no room to do pushups anywhere unless I'm standing up against a wall. I'd have to quit my job for the time it would take to clean up this place. So anyway you dice it, it's not a simple set-up like you may think it is.
 

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The soldier analogy is different. Even though there's some anti-military sentiment in society, soldiers are generally highly respected. Calling someone a soldier isn't an insult.

Escorts, on the other hand, are highly stigmatized.
as they should be.
 

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What I do? An assortment of various things depending on the day. That could include, washing dishes, changing mom's dentures, attending to my mother's wishes, prayer, looking at worship/praise videos, looking at Christian teaching content, sometimes, just trying to catch my breath. This leaves only break-times at work (which they don't really give you anything, more like 10 minutes of personal time which is often used taking emergency calls or using the washroom if it's bad, or yelling inside the meditation room if I'm feeling frustrated with the quality of calls). In terms of commute times in train, can't do pushups in the train can I?

Most of the time where I'm available is in the morning, which can get busy real fast if I have to do grocery shopping for the family, be around when the caregiver comes to take care of mom and give her a shower, financial managment, you name it, then get organized for work and pack a lunch.

You mentioned VR-headset? Yeah, I use it twice a week at 15 minutes each time. After 3 consecutive days at work, especially at a call center job, you start getting "wear and tear" over the week. A 15 minute VR-break is taken which where I have various 360 degree travel videos. Last time I visited the Gold Coast of Australia and some other parts of Australia. The previous time it was Vedero beach in Cuba. So I love travelling and that helps create a psychological distance from the work as it felt I went somewhere the next time I show up to work.

Hope that answers your question. In terms of if there is time to do pushups? This place is a total mess and there is no room to do pushups anywhere unless I'm standing up against a wall. I'd have to quit my job for the time it would take to clean up this place. So anyway you dice it, it's not a simple set-up like you may think it is.
Go outside and do them. 5 pushups takes 2 minutes, and a 5’x7’ space. Would you rather put on your headset than get fit? 2x15 is 30 - 30 minutes is enough time for a workout. You can do the workout every other day. Again if you want to do it you will, if you don’t you’ll find every excuse possible not to.

It all boils down to choices.

Everyone is free to make their own choices in life, but they are not free of the consequences of said choices. You reap what you sow.
 
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Don Juan Discussions.
‘Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice.’.

These wh*re, OF, Porn, tranny & fapping threads need to be moved to ‘Anything Else’. They have nothing to do with ‘DJ Discussions’.
And it continues to degrade the quality of this forum. I'm all for it.
 

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Furthermore, as I mentioned on a previous post, I'd like to learn shortcuts/cheat codes to do better with non-escorts.
You are ADHD. There is no such thing as a cheat code or shortcut. Build it they will come. You’ll get what you deserve, as a man all your life. If you make yourself the best version of you, you will attract a woman at your SMV. The better you are in all aspects, the better a woman you will attract. This isn’t a video game, where you can bring up the console and go god-mode.
 

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I'm in Canada and it's night-time, cold and wet outside and near freezing.
Excuses. Do it your garage. If you don’t have one there are covered spaces outdoors. If not put on waterproof gloves, and do them anyway.

You do realize that you’re making excuses for everything right?
 

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Excuses. Do it your garage. If you don’t have one there are covered spaces outdoors. If not put on waterproof gloves, and do them anyway.

You do realize that you’re making excuses for everything right?
I don't have waterproof gloves, I'll have to check it out on amazon to see if they have it. There is an "X" to everything else you've mentioned (ie no garage, no covered space outdoors). By the time they deliver the gloves it would probably be dry.

Yeah, I do realize I'm making excuses because they are all valid.
 

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I don't have waterproof gloves, I'll have to check it out on amazon to see if they have it. There is an "X" to everything else you've mentioned (ie no garage, no covered space outdoors). By the time they deliver the gloves it would probably be dry.

Yeah, I do realize I'm making excuses because they are all valid.
A problem that can be solved through action is not a problem. Amazon.ca - and I have a hard time believing that you live in Canada without a pair of ski type gloves, go to a thrift store tomorrow morning and get a pair for $5.

A man problem solves, try it, you'll like it. e.g. I want to do Olympic squats, but I don't have a garage or gym membership, so I move my furniture and do them. Simple. Or I could play video games and pick lint out of my navel and wax melodramatic about how nothing is going to work for me.
 

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A problem that can be solved through action is not a problem. Amazon.ca - and I have a hard time believing that you live in Canada without a pair of ski type gloves, go to a thrift store tomorrow morning and get a pair for $5.

A man problem solves, try it, you'll like it. e.g. I want to do Olympic squats, but I don't have a garage or gym membership, so I move my furniture and do them. Simple. Or I could play video games and pick lint out of my navel and wax melodramatic about how nothing is going to work for me.
Who said I don't have a gym membership?
 

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Who said I don't have a gym membership?
What good is it if you don’t use it? Furthermore, I was talking about myself, literally. Are you altered?
 

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What good is it if you don’t use it? Furthermore, I was talking about myself, literally. Are you altered?
In your post you put that as "eg", which implied you were talking about me as you said "a man problem solves", implying any man, not necessariliy you. Your post was not clear.
 

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That's right, all sorts of variation in escorts. Which is one reason some guys go the escort route.

Want a thick Latina with a large backside? Even if you're good at picking up a woman in person, there's no guarantee you'll pick up a woman fitting that exact description if you go out to a bar to look for a woman. By going the escort route, however, you can reserve yourself a thick Latina with a large backside.

If, for example, you want a blonde MILF, same idea applies.

Same applies for any variety of woman for that matter.
It does seem to have allot of variety of options on there, in contrast with incel - no options, etc.... or even a guy with very scarce options with women he does not like all that much but bends to like them because they like him, etc....

Have you gone on any spree where you've visted multiple escorts within a very short period of time? Or anything nasty like do anal with one escort and do bareback oral with another escort within the same day? When I had that problem in the past, it was on a spree where three escort locations were visited in the space of almost 24 hours, and I ditched one location and went to another one across town because it was $20 cheaper. Anyway the whole thing made me feel totally off, like some pagan/heathen and I couldn't handle that at all. Again, this was back in 2014 and something that has been buried as a memory for a very long time. Do you think you could handle visiting multiple women on the same day or short period of time or would you feel sick with that?

This is what chads probably do with girls on Tinder if they are lining up a bunch of first-date lays right?
 

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The term "e.g." is an abbreviation for the Latin phrase "exempli gratia," which translates to "for example." It's used to introduce one or more examples that illustrate a point being made. When you see "e.g." in a sentence, it signals that what follows is not an exhaustive list, but just a few instances to help clarify or exemplify the preceding statement.

And I followed it with "I" a personal pronoun, meaning as a result - "for example, I..."

In your post you put that as "eg", which implied you were talking about me as you said "a man problem solves", implying any man, not necessariliy you. Your post was not clear.
 

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I honestly feel like half of the new(er) posters that have joined this forum and been active on here have really made this entire place just a troll environment. I'm not going to name any in particular, nor do I have to lol.
Just beause you talk about escorts doesn't make it a troll discussion. You've been with escorts yourself in the past.
 

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I honestly feel like half of the new(er) posters that have joined this forum and been active on here have really made this entire place just a troll environment. I'm not going to name any in particular, nor do I have to lol.
My thoughts exactly.
 

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Escorting is ok for a good time but tbh even that hobby (business) has become filled with lazy/over weight and over priced vaginaa .

It’s been inflated by the “ho3” culture that has been going on for the last decade or so. Women demand more but offer less.

The best way to put it is before the advent of a smartphone in everyones hand. A “working girl” actually had to keep clients. Now if she blows of some dude knowing he will not call her back she can have another client come within in minutes. That mixed with Instagram, only fans (the majority of where the new working girls go) and twitch etc their just aren’t any girl

the industry has turned into over inflation and leftover women who haven’t made the change to newer avenues for ho3ing. What’s left for the traditional escorting are uglys, drug addicts/felons and women who have burned every other bridge in their life.


Escorting has is place, if your grinding and don’t have time/money to do dating it can create a vice for women. Along with other benefits that have been stated.

the problem you’ll find with escorting is kinda the same as dealing with a single mother in her late 30s. She single for a reason and doing this because she can’t find a man. So yes you don’t necessary deal with the girl1 hour once a week/month/day will rub of on you one way of the other. Making the situation more detrimental to your mental state.

The biggest draw back to escorting (and if you don’t understand this you should do it) compared to a normal gf she will have passion for you. Unless you catch an escort on a good day she will not have passion for the deed. It’s the nature of the business, when she just f’d 3 guys the day before.
 

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It’s been inflated by the “ho3” culture that has been going on for the last decade or so. Women demand more but offer less.
Just don't date low value women.
 

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