Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No, evolution made the sexual dialectic. (There is an interesting mathematical paper that basically says that binary DNA sharing is the only such sharing system that is stable.)
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is not my place here to talk about these things beyond medical necessity. Unlesd you can come up with a better rendering.of the situation of being "allergic to Bianca, the Brazillian escort" then what richardthetoad offered then I am all ears.
If that were the case, my mind would have melted by now.
Yes but God made evolution and everything that drives evolution including the intermediary, life creating properties that exist within entropy itself.
I guess you consider yourself lucky you have never had such a reaction then?If that were the case, my mind would have melted by now.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Debatable. Thanks for quoting Ariana Grande though. Lol.
I don't think most of us here want ltr/marriage