Escalating

[Prodoge]

My weakness is going from heaving making out to s3x. I don't really know how to lead smoothly from one to the other.

Any tips on escalating from making out in the flat, only the two of you, to s3x ?

 

[Dingo]

One word... Kino....
Let your hands do the talking.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Yeah the actual escalation once you're kissing is the easy bit. Just let your hands wander slowly and carefully and she'll escalate herself if she likes it.

On the other hand I find escalating to the kissing in the first place is far tougher, because she won't always be giving you much in way of signals.

 

[marmel75]

Grab her hand and put it directly o your(hopefully) rock hard c0ck and watch for changes in her breathing...

 

[The Duke]

I usually start rubbing her thighs, pu$$y, ass on the outside of her clothes. Start unbuttoning her clothes. Then slide my hands under her panties/bra. Next I start kissing on her body. I make sure the nipples are erect and she has some wetness between her legs. Next.....insert penis into the vagina!!! Nothing like the feeling of a conquering a new girl!

Maybe some of the resident females can tell us what they've experienced? lol

 

[jaymbrs]

Start by grabbing her ass, then go from kissing her lips to her neck then start to take her shirt off. If she lets you do that, you’re in. You should just be able to proceed naturally from there.

 

[Prodoge]

^^^ This.

Escalating from kissing to sex does not require any special kino-like moves. As Midnight says, it's usually all auto-pilot.

What typically stops a woman along the way are indirect/outside influences and factors; thoughts running in the back of her head. Are you in the right place to have sex? Is she supposed to meet or call someone? Is someone going to wonder where she is? How will she explain things to her friends later.... how the walk of shame will go the next morning....how she might feel about how you will perceive her afterwards....

If you're hitting road blocks, it's usually due to something along these lines. A woman with time to kill and few worries will usually succumb to the heat of the moment, even if doing so breaks many of her "rules".

As for escalating from nothing to the first kiss, just a little kino can go a very long way.

I was out with a woman the other night and she was talking about getting a small tattoo on her breast plate just below her shoulder. My first "kino" move was when I disagreed with her on that. I brushed her hair aside and ran my finger up and down the back of her neck suggesting she get it there instead, and continued to do that as I rationalized why she should get it there (she can hide it when she needs to, put her hair up and show it off when she wants to, etc,). She did a little kino of her own from there and we were kissing about 30 minutes later. A few days later she admitted to me that little move really turned her on.

What happened was, we went to her place after a party with other friends and chilled a bit. Everyone left except one of her female friends who was quite drunk and slept on her couch. After I left i texted her thanks for having us over and part of her reply was "Why did you leave?". At that point I knew it was on, so i went back (on campus we live literally 50 meters appart) and we went to her room. One thing led to another and we ended up making out in her bed. It dodnt go any further probably because she had her friend on the couch in the back of her mind.

But i will see how things go next week, i feel like she is quite into me. Also i met her for the firsy time last monday. God praise the Erasmus program

 

[marmel75]

What happened was, we went to her place after a party with other friends and chilled a bit. Everyone left except one of her female friends who was quite drunk and slept on her couch. After I left i texted her thanks for having us over and part of her reply was "Why did you leave?". At that point I knew it was on, so i went back (on campus we live literally 50 meters appart) and we went to her room. One thing led to another and we ended up making out in her bed. It dodnt go any further probably because she had her friend on the couch in the back of her mind.

But i will see how things go next week, i feel like she is quite into me. Also i met her for the firsy time last monday. God praise the Erasmus program

No it didn't go further because you didn't push the envelope. Its her not her job to make something happen, its your job. You lead she follows...as long as she isnt stopping you keep pushing.

 

[Roober]

Google kino escalation. There is plenty of well written articles on it.