"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Escalating

NorwegianDJ

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Alright my fellow highschoolers, it seems like the main forum is about to fail me. I don't know if it's because of an invation of new guys, causing a massive amounts of posts or what, but I ain't getting any answers.
So here I am, asking for answers.

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So I'm having trouble escalating properly and all the way.
I usually just go up to a girl or a group of girls, put my hands around them (It works well in HS actually) and say something like "Why don't I know you guys yet?" or a stupid version of that. Then I go for hugs, some girls refuse to give me hugs, so I just shake their hand tell them my name. I also tend to tell them to do a proper handshake/hug, which usually works well and gets me a 2nd one.

After this I will slowly find my target and move in on her. If she's receptive, then I just hold her by the waist or keep doing a bit sexual kino like holding hands etc, if not, then I do the same, just slower and more casual touching.

So my problem is: What now?
I seem to fail at this, I don't know why. I have a hard time isolating and kissing her. It might be because I actually haven't kissed anyone in 2 years.

Alright, so how do I escalate properly, and what to do to make it more sexual? And isolate?
By the way, this is all in parties.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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I know... You know, it's funny, when you ask a question here, you already have the answers yourself, you just aren't too sure of yourself, or you just don't want to hear the truth.

I know what to do. I simply give a stupid reason to go somewhere isolated, girls will rationalize it if they are attracted. Then I can just go for the kill. I know whats going on, they know whats going on. Also I've been forgetting eye contact.

Just as a little end Q here.. Why has sosuave become so bad? anyone?
 

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Du er norsk, ser jeg :p

You need to talk to your target first, if she shows signs of interest you start a little bit of kino while talking, then you isolate.. just make some stupid **** up. Put your arm around her and take her outside or somewhere, don't ask her.. just say you need to show her something like MrP said. Yes, eye contact, especially before you go for the kill.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks for the replies guys, helped, even tho I have to admit I already knew the answer.

Jepp, jeg er norsk, men har flytta til Sør-afrika i 1 år.

In the end it comes down to ur confidence, kino, EC, rapport, escalation and isolation.
 
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