"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Escalating

NorwegianDJ

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Alright my fellow highschoolers, it seems like the main forum is about to fail me. I don't know if it's because of an invation of new guys, causing a massive amounts of posts or what, but I ain't getting any answers.
So here I am, asking for answers.

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So I'm having trouble escalating properly and all the way.
I usually just go up to a girl or a group of girls, put my hands around them (It works well in HS actually) and say something like "Why don't I know you guys yet?" or a stupid version of that. Then I go for hugs, some girls refuse to give me hugs, so I just shake their hand tell them my name. I also tend to tell them to do a proper handshake/hug, which usually works well and gets me a 2nd one.

After this I will slowly find my target and move in on her. If she's receptive, then I just hold her by the waist or keep doing a bit sexual kino like holding hands etc, if not, then I do the same, just slower and more casual touching.

So my problem is: What now?
I seem to fail at this, I don't know why. I have a hard time isolating and kissing her. It might be because I actually haven't kissed anyone in 2 years.

Alright, so how do I escalate properly, and what to do to make it more sexual? And isolate?
By the way, this is all in parties.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorwegianDJ

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I know... You know, it's funny, when you ask a question here, you already have the answers yourself, you just aren't too sure of yourself, or you just don't want to hear the truth.

I know what to do. I simply give a stupid reason to go somewhere isolated, girls will rationalize it if they are attracted. Then I can just go for the kill. I know whats going on, they know whats going on. Also I've been forgetting eye contact.

Just as a little end Q here.. Why has sosuave become so bad? anyone?
 

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Du er norsk, ser jeg :p

You need to talk to your target first, if she shows signs of interest you start a little bit of kino while talking, then you isolate.. just make some stupid **** up. Put your arm around her and take her outside or somewhere, don't ask her.. just say you need to show her something like MrP said. Yes, eye contact, especially before you go for the kill.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks for the replies guys, helped, even tho I have to admit I already knew the answer.

Jepp, jeg er norsk, men har flytta til Sør-afrika i 1 år.

In the end it comes down to ur confidence, kino, EC, rapport, escalation and isolation.
 
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