"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Escalating with a girl you arent sexually attracted to?

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I have these 2 female friends that I LJBF, ironically they're both single. However one I had a history of a STR.
the other i've known for a few years who has an awesome personality, we tease each other a lot.

Both are cool girls, but im not sexually attracted to them. I would probably be lying to myself and them if i pretended to like them/treat them more than a friend. Well this post is probably a no-brainer. But has anyone here taken a shot with a friend/girl and found there was chemistry or was it just pointless?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's pointless. Attraction is a MUST. It doesn't matter how big her boobs are or how tight her butt is, if you aren't attracted to her, then it's not going to do anything for you. Plus, one party will get hurt. Don't bother.
 
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You're right I was hoping for someone to disprove me or say otherwise. ironically girls seem to have no problem with this, they are willing to settle in a relationship with a guy they arent attracted to.

It's easy for a guy to escape the LJBF zone, but rarely does it happen for a girl escaping the zone.
 
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I think there's some flexibility in this. Are you COMPLETELY not attracted to them?

Becuase I started seeing a girl recently that I was only somewhat interested in. She was skinny, real skinny, and had short hair. Not exactly things I'm big on. But I started hanging out with her and we hit it off so well that way that I found myself becoming increasingly sexually attracted to her.

But then again... SHE was already sexually interested in me. So you better make sure she's into you first before you start hitting on her.
 
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I'm sure if one of them started sucking your ***k you would feel attraction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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