"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Escalating with a girl you arent sexually attracted to?

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solo1

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I have these 2 female friends that I LJBF, ironically they're both single. However one I had a history of a STR.
the other i've known for a few years who has an awesome personality, we tease each other a lot.

Both are cool girls, but im not sexually attracted to them. I would probably be lying to myself and them if i pretended to like them/treat them more than a friend. Well this post is probably a no-brainer. But has anyone here taken a shot with a friend/girl and found there was chemistry or was it just pointless?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's pointless. Attraction is a MUST. It doesn't matter how big her boobs are or how tight her butt is, if you aren't attracted to her, then it's not going to do anything for you. Plus, one party will get hurt. Don't bother.
 
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You're right I was hoping for someone to disprove me or say otherwise. ironically girls seem to have no problem with this, they are willing to settle in a relationship with a guy they arent attracted to.

It's easy for a guy to escape the LJBF zone, but rarely does it happen for a girl escaping the zone.
 
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I think there's some flexibility in this. Are you COMPLETELY not attracted to them?

Becuase I started seeing a girl recently that I was only somewhat interested in. She was skinny, real skinny, and had short hair. Not exactly things I'm big on. But I started hanging out with her and we hit it off so well that way that I found myself becoming increasingly sexually attracted to her.

But then again... SHE was already sexually interested in me. So you better make sure she's into you first before you start hitting on her.
 
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I'm sure if one of them started sucking your ***k you would feel attraction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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