Escalating with a girl you arent sexually attracted to?

[solo1]

I have these 2 female friends that I LJBF, ironically they're both single. However one I had a history of a STR.
the other i've known for a few years who has an awesome personality, we tease each other a lot.

Both are cool girls, but im not sexually attracted to them. I would probably be lying to myself and them if i pretended to like them/treat them more than a friend. Well this post is probably a no-brainer. But has anyone here taken a shot with a friend/girl and found there was chemistry or was it just pointless?

 

[Juan_Man]

It's pointless. Attraction is a MUST. It doesn't matter how big her boobs are or how tight her butt is, if you aren't attracted to her, then it's not going to do anything for you. Plus, one party will get hurt. Don't bother.

 

[solo1]

You're right I was hoping for someone to disprove me or say otherwise. ironically girls seem to have no problem with this, they are willing to settle in a relationship with a guy they arent attracted to.

It's easy for a guy to escape the LJBF zone, but rarely does it happen for a girl escaping the zone.

 

[realsmoothie]

I think there's some flexibility in this. Are you COMPLETELY not attracted to them?

Becuase I started seeing a girl recently that I was only somewhat interested in. She was skinny, real skinny, and had short hair. Not exactly things I'm big on. But I started hanging out with her and we hit it off so well that way that I found myself becoming increasingly sexually attracted to her.

But then again... SHE was already sexually interested in me. So you better make sure she's into you first before you start hitting on her.

 

[fertileTurtle]

I'm sure if one of them started sucking your ***k you would feel attraction.

 

[The Devil]

good discussion