You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Look at her left eye, look at her right eye, look at her lips, do this a few times and alternate (one second each look), get closer to her face, check for signs of aproval or just keep getting closer and doing this and go for it, if you see that she is backing up then abort mission and keep talking like nothing happened. I read this somewhere but cant remember where, and yeah, read the DJ Bible, you will find most that you need in there, it is the most valuable thing in here in my opinion.Nino-Tk said:Aey thanx Rollindo i jus got back from skul and i did what u stated..u know kino,kino,kino..well yeah you right it works!any tips on goin for the kiss to test if she likes me or not?oh and thanx migeman il download the Dj bible and check it..