I've done a search and the only thing people say about this is to go in for the kiss. I'd prefer to say something to her before I kiss her rather than just go for it out of the blue. The times I've kissed women in clubs I've just went for it but im trying to improve my game with the verbals. For example... "So,we should kiss now.". What else is there... "You're lips look very kissable?" I'm really clutching at straws... HELP!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Escalating to a kiss with conversation in a club...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i cant think of anything you can say, i dont think you should say anything, but you could get a long EC with her just as you are about to go in.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
this one i've used twice. 100% successful
after talking with her/making her laugh for abit
i do this, i lean in close to her and ask her if she can smell my aftershave/cologne
in both cases both girls said it smelt extremely good.
so now that she has broken down the conservative wall by sniffing my cologne, moving into my personal space, i move into hers..
slowly moving closer to her neck area, pretending to smell for perfume of some sort, gently nuzzling her neck
in one case it was like this
(me nuzzling her neck)
me : "you smell real good"
her: -laughs- and acts shy
(then here's when i slowly moved my head away from her neck and looked into her eyes and lifted her chin to mine...)
it was all a gradual progression
but you got to know how to build up rapport before you do this
and for the other girl, maybe she was turned on or something, before i could even lift her chin to mine, her lips were already on mine. haha.
haha.
oh such fun.
go try it. certified effective by me
after talking with her/making her laugh for abit
i do this, i lean in close to her and ask her if she can smell my aftershave/cologne
in both cases both girls said it smelt extremely good.
so now that she has broken down the conservative wall by sniffing my cologne, moving into my personal space, i move into hers..
slowly moving closer to her neck area, pretending to smell for perfume of some sort, gently nuzzling her neck
in one case it was like this
(me nuzzling her neck)
me : "you smell real good"
her: -laughs- and acts shy
(then here's when i slowly moved my head away from her neck and looked into her eyes and lifted her chin to mine...)
it was all a gradual progression
but you got to know how to build up rapport before you do this
and for the other girl, maybe she was turned on or something, before i could even lift her chin to mine, her lips were already on mine. haha.
haha.
oh such fun.
go try it. certified effective by me
MAN
I posted this in a different/better forum, not here because it was a little too full on for this place I thought.
Last week I had two girls who were friends playing up to me. I looked at one and said "kiss me", and I went in for some tonsil action. I turned to her friend and told her to do the same, she did. Did this a few times and then told them to kiss each other so I could decide who was the best kisser.
Just fukcing tell them to, they will if they are in to you.
Be the Daddy.
PS. I applied some Player Supreme method here by the way. To those of you who dont agree with him....WAKE UP!
I posted this in a different/better forum, not here because it was a little too full on for this place I thought.
Last week I had two girls who were friends playing up to me. I looked at one and said "kiss me", and I went in for some tonsil action. I turned to her friend and told her to do the same, she did. Did this a few times and then told them to kiss each other so I could decide who was the best kisser.
Just fukcing tell them to, they will if they are in to you.
Be the Daddy.
PS. I applied some Player Supreme method here by the way. To those of you who dont agree with him....WAKE UP!
Jippii
Don Juan
I think sart's reply is good.
one thing i've noticed is that verbalizing sexual tension (you know that feeling when something's going on) actually may dissolve it. Something to think about...
one thing i've noticed is that verbalizing sexual tension (you know that feeling when something's going on) actually may dissolve it. Something to think about...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jakethasnake
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In a loud place, you don't need ANY verbal interaction. Create enough sexual tension thru dancing, embracing, touching, and you should be good. Just reach out while looking into her eyes, caress her face/tilt up her chin, then bring her face toward you+move in. Kiss tha hoe.
If she's offering resistance or you for whatever reason decide that she needs more priming, then ISOLATE. ISOLATE ISOLATE ISOLATE. I've kissed/tongued girl who were VERY hesitant to do anything with me in front of her friends, but was all over me on the other side of the bar/club.
If she's offering resistance or you for whatever reason decide that she needs more priming, then ISOLATE. ISOLATE ISOLATE ISOLATE. I've kissed/tongued girl who were VERY hesitant to do anything with me in front of her friends, but was all over me on the other side of the bar/club.
squirrels
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I've NEVER verbally said anything about kissing with a girl.
Usually if you've got her interested/aroused through kino, etc, you'll know when it's OK to kiss her...the head will tilt to one side, she'll get that glazed over look, eyes will start to half-close...also you should be naturally (NATURALLY!! This isn't some script!) closing the distance between the two of you as you talk to her.
If you start to move in and it doesn't look like she's ready, or she turns, just say something into her ear, nuzzle her cheek/neck, etc.
If you're horny...and you've also succeeded in getting HER horny...the kiss shouldn't even be an issue. After all, it's just a kiss.
Usually if you've got her interested/aroused through kino, etc, you'll know when it's OK to kiss her...the head will tilt to one side, she'll get that glazed over look, eyes will start to half-close...also you should be naturally (NATURALLY!! This isn't some script!) closing the distance between the two of you as you talk to her.
If you start to move in and it doesn't look like she's ready, or she turns, just say something into her ear, nuzzle her cheek/neck, etc.
If you're horny...and you've also succeeded in getting HER horny...the kiss shouldn't even be an issue. After all, it's just a kiss.