"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Escalating sexually

carlitos

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For some reason I feel like this part is always missing from my game and I'm not sure why..only at the right place right time I do everything right but when I'm put under pressure sometimes I freeze up

for example when a friend sets me up with a 'blind date'..or with girls that are very sexually open..I noticed when my friends that are naturals tease the sh!t out of the girls they love it..and i'm noticing their patterns its like they show their interest but also shows control, taste...

Anyone been in my shoes before that could give me some advice, tips and examples?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OrangeCrusader

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I think he means building sexual tension/etc. through C&F (example given as what his friends do).

Look up some of the many articles/threads on C&F, push-pull, etc. It's pretty much the teasing and busting on the girls that you're seeing you're friends doing, and it's a pretty easy thing to integrate once you know how it works.
 
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