"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Escalating sexually

carlitos

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For some reason I feel like this part is always missing from my game and I'm not sure why..only at the right place right time I do everything right but when I'm put under pressure sometimes I freeze up

for example when a friend sets me up with a 'blind date'..or with girls that are very sexually open..I noticed when my friends that are naturals tease the sh!t out of the girls they love it..and i'm noticing their patterns its like they show their interest but also shows control, taste...

Anyone been in my shoes before that could give me some advice, tips and examples?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OrangeCrusader

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I think he means building sexual tension/etc. through C&F (example given as what his friends do).

Look up some of the many articles/threads on C&F, push-pull, etc. It's pretty much the teasing and busting on the girls that you're seeing you're friends doing, and it's a pretty easy thing to integrate once you know how it works.
 
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