"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Escalating Relationships

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I've never been the type of guy that gets into relationships but I've recently decided that I want to give it a shot and see what its all about. Now my problem lays in escalating a relationship past just drunk makeouts/one night stands.

I just honestly don't know what to do. For example, there is this girl, Kate. Now I've been sporatically hooking up with this girl for about 2 years. And by sporatically I mean like once a month TOPS. Now I've tried to take it a step further with this girl and have failed time and time and time again. I don't know what my problem is but I can't escalate with this girl. I know its not something to do with her because I've tried this with numerous girls and have failed. So my question to you guys is what do I do to take things further with girls in general.

I figured the move is to see them SOBER. So I asked her to come over a few times to chill and its never worked out. I've pregame with her a bunch of times but it just hasn't gotten any further and I need to know what works for you guys in these types of situations.
Thanks in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Umm...do you kiss her neck when you guys are making out? Do that and slowly start touching her more and more and see how she reacts. If she doesn't stop you then keep going :). But if you guys hook up a lot it shouldn't be too hard to get her wet and ready.
 
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Thanks for the response but I'm not talking about escalating in the bedroom. That I'm pretty sure I can take care of myself. I'm saying I want to escalate my relationship with her. As in I want to see if her and I can start hooking up "exclusively." I have yet to be able to pull it off.
 
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Start getting her doing things with you so she can subconsciously start making a bond with you. I don't just mean sex, but get her to go shopping with you, or a quick bite to eat after a bedroom session, etc, start off every few weeks so she slowly gets used to it and eventually expects it. Start finding out about more about her too, things you've not asked her yet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like you're trying to ruin a perfectly good fbuddy relationship.

Instead, find a different girl, and don't try to remake the world.
 
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