Second date synopsis,
I took her to dinner and a movie and barely watched the movie.
While driving her home I just drove my car down a side road, parked looked at her and started kissing her. She was all for it. We spent a lot of time talking in between hooking up and she asked me some much more personal questions about myself than she had on the first date.
She also told me things like "I feel like I'm out of your league." This kind of caught me off guard because it sounded like something an AFC dude would say to a chick. She told me she wasn't used to a man holding a door open for her or picking her up or basically being a gentleman. She also told me that I was nothing like she had originally expected and that I continue to be very unpredictable "in a great way". Either I'm missing something or this chick is really into me.
We made out a lot, and I did a lot of touching but she would keep stopping me before things got too escalated and kept saying that I was a "bad boy" I would back off for a little bit and try again and I would get further and further. I didn't get any sort of sexual touching from her for more than a couple of seconds but she was really into what I was doing to her up until she would lightly stop me from taking off her pants.
I am confused about what to do now. Should I keep trying on date 3 or should I just back off and take it slow? My mind is telling me that if I tell her I want to take it slow, that she will actually respect me more, and it will push me further toward my goal quicker. The alternative is if I am moving too fast for her that I may miss my goal all together. Any insight is appreciated.
I took her to dinner and a movie and barely watched the movie.
While driving her home I just drove my car down a side road, parked looked at her and started kissing her. She was all for it. We spent a lot of time talking in between hooking up and she asked me some much more personal questions about myself than she had on the first date.
She also told me things like "I feel like I'm out of your league." This kind of caught me off guard because it sounded like something an AFC dude would say to a chick. She told me she wasn't used to a man holding a door open for her or picking her up or basically being a gentleman. She also told me that I was nothing like she had originally expected and that I continue to be very unpredictable "in a great way". Either I'm missing something or this chick is really into me.
We made out a lot, and I did a lot of touching but she would keep stopping me before things got too escalated and kept saying that I was a "bad boy" I would back off for a little bit and try again and I would get further and further. I didn't get any sort of sexual touching from her for more than a couple of seconds but she was really into what I was doing to her up until she would lightly stop me from taking off her pants.
I am confused about what to do now. Should I keep trying on date 3 or should I just back off and take it slow? My mind is telling me that if I tell her I want to take it slow, that she will actually respect me more, and it will push me further toward my goal quicker. The alternative is if I am moving too fast for her that I may miss my goal all together. Any insight is appreciated.
