"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bossman90

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There's this f*cking f*ggot running his mouth behind my back and trying to sabotage **** with these 2 girls. He's pretty ****ing beta. Normally I would not give 2 ****s about this faggOts opinion, but he's getting in my way of *****. Any ideas on how to defeat this little *****?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bossman90

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I'm more annoyed with the fact that he's sabotaging me, not what he thinks. You have any ideas on how to flip it on him?
 

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I would sarcastically point out the obvious and belittle him. Saying things like "aww that's cute, talking bad about me. I remember when that was cool in 4th grade. Go ahead, i'll wait till you're done." And i would get the girls to chime in and be like "remember 4th grade and how that was cute?".

Most important thing is your frame. That's above all else. You lose your cool and you're useless. Stay cool, calm, and collected through out the whole thing. Make sure you're the one to end the interaction by walking way. And don't worry girls notice when guys are gossiping and sabotaging like females and it's not attractive. So they are making themselves look like jack asses anyways.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The sosuave amog

After you see him talk to a girl and then leave, walk up to the girl and ask with seemingly genuine curiosity, "So...did that stuff work?"

(blank stare..what?)

"The stuff he said to you. He said he read some web site about how to get girls and that he knew just what to say to make you fall in love with him."

(she'll laugh)

"No really, I want to know. What are the magic words to get girls? This stuff is fascinating!"

By this time, she should be giggling hysterically and the guy will have become a complete joke to her and her friends.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Bible_Belt said:
After you see him talk to a girl and then leave, walk up to the girl and ask with seemingly genuine curiosity, "So...did that stuff work?"

(blank stare..what?)

"The stuff he said to you. He said he read some web site about how to get girls and that he knew just what to say to make you fall in love with him."

(she'll laugh)

"No really, I want to know. What are the magic words to get girls? This stuff is fascinating!"

By this time, she should be giggling hysterically and the guy will have become a complete joke to her and her friends.
I once personally witnessed a guy trying NLP. He might even be on this forum. It was one of the weirdest and creepiest things that I have seen.

Keep in mind that I knew what he was doing. I can only imagine how weird it must have been for the people who didn't know what he was trying to do.
 

Bossman90

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alxrose04 said:
I would sarcastically point out the obvious and belittle him. Saying things like "aww that's cute, talking bad about me. I remember when that was cool in 4th grade. Go ahead, i'll wait till you're done." And i would get the girls to chime in and be like "remember 4th grade and how that was cute?".

Most important thing is your frame. That's above all else. You lose your cool and you're useless. Stay cool, calm, and collected through out the whole thing. Make sure you're the one to end the interaction by walking way. And don't worry girls notice when guys are gossiping and sabotaging like females and it's not attractive. So they are making themselves look like jack asses anyways.
Normally how I used to wreck shop on other dudes, but I lOst my quick wit because of depression.
 

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bring up that you get a creepy vibe off of him. Always makes girl instinctively respond in disgust to the accusation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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