There's this f*cking f*ggot running his mouth behind my back and trying to sabotage **** with these 2 girls. He's pretty ****ing beta. Normally I would not give 2 ****s about this faggOts opinion, but he's getting in my way of *****. Any ideas on how to defeat this little *****?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
*****es talking ****
- Thread starter Bossman90
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
D.J. King Allister
Don Juan
Just ignore what he does, or does, and go with the flow. A DJ know not to give two sh*ts about what others say, or think about him.
Fly By Night
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Well you're not being specific, but a simple "He's just jealous 'cause he can't get none." works 
I would sarcastically point out the obvious and belittle him. Saying things like "aww that's cute, talking bad about me. I remember when that was cool in 4th grade. Go ahead, i'll wait till you're done." And i would get the girls to chime in and be like "remember 4th grade and how that was cute?".
Most important thing is your frame. That's above all else. You lose your cool and you're useless. Stay cool, calm, and collected through out the whole thing. Make sure you're the one to end the interaction by walking way. And don't worry girls notice when guys are gossiping and sabotaging like females and it's not attractive. So they are making themselves look like jack asses anyways.
Most important thing is your frame. That's above all else. You lose your cool and you're useless. Stay cool, calm, and collected through out the whole thing. Make sure you're the one to end the interaction by walking way. And don't worry girls notice when guys are gossiping and sabotaging like females and it's not attractive. So they are making themselves look like jack asses anyways.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The sosuave amog
After you see him talk to a girl and then leave, walk up to the girl and ask with seemingly genuine curiosity, "So...did that stuff work?"
(blank stare..what?)
"The stuff he said to you. He said he read some web site about how to get girls and that he knew just what to say to make you fall in love with him."
(she'll laugh)
"No really, I want to know. What are the magic words to get girls? This stuff is fascinating!"
By this time, she should be giggling hysterically and the guy will have become a complete joke to her and her friends.
After you see him talk to a girl and then leave, walk up to the girl and ask with seemingly genuine curiosity, "So...did that stuff work?"
(blank stare..what?)
"The stuff he said to you. He said he read some web site about how to get girls and that he knew just what to say to make you fall in love with him."
(she'll laugh)
"No really, I want to know. What are the magic words to get girls? This stuff is fascinating!"
By this time, she should be giggling hysterically and the guy will have become a complete joke to her and her friends.
TillTheEndOfTime
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I once personally witnessed a guy trying NLP. He might even be on this forum. It was one of the weirdest and creepiest things that I have seen.Bible_Belt said:
Keep in mind that I knew what he was doing. I can only imagine how weird it must have been for the people who didn't know what he was trying to do.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
You know what to do bossman.......
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.