"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joe45

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hey has anyone noticed the craiglist and erotic service section.
are the korean/japanese girls doing those job to pay for their esl school when they come to vancouver-thats what my friend said. or what is the case.
i went their to check it out with a friend today to an apartment sicne hes gone to these places before, i declined, but the 3 girls i saw looked pretty decent and nice looking.

i wonder why they do it. is it for school, or drugs, or they just poor and need money to live and rather do erotic services than work for low wages at starbucks
everytime i walk down robson or dwtn vancouver i alwasy see the overseas students -they seem to dress all very nice. the girls and the guys
so whats the case-why do they do what they do. aren;t the gross out by having sex with a gross guy. i now i wouldnlt be able to do it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joe45

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my friend did it like many times before and he said he hasn;t gotten stds yet.

we went there yesterday to this persons apartment which it was held. he has been there befiore.
funny thing is my first time going the the place and i thought it wouuld look like a dump-its actually a nice apt inside and out.

the girls all look nice looking and nothing you would suspect to be a escort /hooker. i really wondered why they do what they do.

scary thing is i sometime meet girls randomly at mall, library,bookstore and you never now the girl you trying to get her # and go out-coould be doing this kind of escort work unless she tells you-scary hey

he told me he got oral sex with the escort girl without a condom. i thought that was crazy
 

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sounds like you should have taken advantage of it while u were there as well. then maybe u'd get out of that bubble your stuck in.
 
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