"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joe45

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hey has anyone noticed the craiglist and erotic service section.
are the korean/japanese girls doing those job to pay for their esl school when they come to vancouver-thats what my friend said. or what is the case.
i went their to check it out with a friend today to an apartment sicne hes gone to these places before, i declined, but the 3 girls i saw looked pretty decent and nice looking.

i wonder why they do it. is it for school, or drugs, or they just poor and need money to live and rather do erotic services than work for low wages at starbucks
everytime i walk down robson or dwtn vancouver i alwasy see the overseas students -they seem to dress all very nice. the girls and the guys
so whats the case-why do they do what they do. aren;t the gross out by having sex with a gross guy. i now i wouldnlt be able to do it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my friend did it like many times before and he said he hasn;t gotten stds yet.

we went there yesterday to this persons apartment which it was held. he has been there befiore.
funny thing is my first time going the the place and i thought it wouuld look like a dump-its actually a nice apt inside and out.

the girls all look nice looking and nothing you would suspect to be a escort /hooker. i really wondered why they do what they do.

scary thing is i sometime meet girls randomly at mall, library,bookstore and you never now the girl you trying to get her # and go out-coould be doing this kind of escort work unless she tells you-scary hey

he told me he got oral sex with the escort girl without a condom. i thought that was crazy
 

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sounds like you should have taken advantage of it while u were there as well. then maybe u'd get out of that bubble your stuck in.
 
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