"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Erections during kino.

Starrie

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I continue to get hardons about the same as when I was fifteen. I wake up with a railroad spike. I'll stretch my pants driving to work after heavy snow.

So, when I'm down her pants at a theater it happens like clockwork. Ditto if she gets on my lap when we're sharing a restaurant booth or something like that...dancing can be tricky. When things end in sex I figure that it's attractive or it just doesn't matter, that she would have indicated if it was a serious problem. However, when things don't work out I wonder if the teenage stiffy routine had something to do with it.

So far no girl has outright mentioned it and I'm sure as hell not going to just present the question.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bokanovsky

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Getting a hard on is a normal male physical reaction and I seriously doubt that a girl who is attracted to you would ever hold that against you. In fact, the opposite is more likely to be true. Think about it: if a girl you liked got wet during kino, would you think less of her? Of course not. If anything, it would be a turn on. And women are sexual beings too, you know.
 

JoeMarron

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Lol did you seriously just ask if having a boner is hurting your chances with women?
 

yuppaz

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Nah they like it. It helps your chances way more than you think...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fly By Night

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Oh, I'm sure the older guys here are doing just fine. I'm sure they put their tool into use often enough to keep it from going rusty. :up:
 

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Bokanovsky said:
Getting a hard on is a normal male physical reaction and I seriously doubt that a girl who is attracted to you would ever hold that against you. In fact, the opposite is more likely to be true. Think about it: if a girl you liked got wet during kino, would you think less of her? Of course not. If anything, it would be a turn on. And women are sexual beings too, you know.
I don't know bro, I've had it happen. I've had gotten hot and heavy with a girl and got the normal male physical reaction, then they stop, laugh and leave. Who the hell knows why...maybe it was test, me against her boyfriend...all I know is it was held against me.

Just because a girl is making out with you doesn't mean they are attracted to you. People hold anything against you if it benefits them.
 

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Cool. I'll stop worrying so much.

Trump, ive yet to have a girl laugh or just get up and go. But I have worried that its been a factor in things not panning out. A lot of the above makes sense. If she bounces because she makes you hard, then she had already decided you aren't on her sex radar.
 

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Whenever I catch a wood like that I just show her what she did to me. And just kinda chill there until she "fixes" it... I'll usually whisper in her ear "touch it"

Hands down any woman you are sexual with would see it as a compliment.

Those boner days don't last forever bud, enjoy them... show off that wood like a fine work of art dude!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fly By Night said:
Oh, I'm sure the older guys here are doing just fine. I'm sure they put their tool into use often enough to keep it from going rusty. :up:
or theres that little blue pill:crackup:
 
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