"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Erection Problem?

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Right now it's like my sex drive seems way down. Heres the situation. I've been out of town for about 1/2 month. I feel really out of place and don't like it. I'm going home soon though. Anyway, its like I haven't had an erection the whole time I've been away and my sex drive seems down. When I'm at home though me and my g/f do stuff a lot. I think it might be because I have a lot on my mind or something like that. I've also been tired lately. Anyone ever experience anyting like this? Any help?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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drixsa

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is there is a chance that u are bored in your relationship?

there is the HB9 that has a thing for me. We started off as "friends" and i changed that status

we hooked up for a while, and now i have become bored of her because the game is over

she is tellin me how much she cares bout me, this and that

shes pretty hot so im keepin her around, more importantly keepin my options open, but i dont care bout her they way i used to when we were friends and i wanted her ass real bad

can u relate?
 

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Well it could be stress or depression. Either in large doses is not good for the ole libido. I don't know enough psychology nor enough of your situation to make a specific assesment, but those are possibilities.
 

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That happened to me once. Search the internet for impotency.

Taking ephedra can cause it. So can benedryl. I'm sure there is so many more.

Like you say if there's too mch on your mind. Exams? That might be it...
 

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There you go! Fatigue will do it!



Are you on any prescription medications like antidepressants?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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drixsa

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to add quite a zing to your sex life u may want to add some marijuana

i cant tell you scientifically why but when you have sex or recieve oral it feels much better when you are on marijuana

i have herd the same thing bout extasy but that sh!t is a lil too hardcore for my style
 
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