"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Erection Problem?

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Right now it's like my sex drive seems way down. Heres the situation. I've been out of town for about 1/2 month. I feel really out of place and don't like it. I'm going home soon though. Anyway, its like I haven't had an erection the whole time I've been away and my sex drive seems down. When I'm at home though me and my g/f do stuff a lot. I think it might be because I have a lot on my mind or something like that. I've also been tired lately. Anyone ever experience anyting like this? Any help?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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drixsa

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is there is a chance that u are bored in your relationship?

there is the HB9 that has a thing for me. We started off as "friends" and i changed that status

we hooked up for a while, and now i have become bored of her because the game is over

she is tellin me how much she cares bout me, this and that

shes pretty hot so im keepin her around, more importantly keepin my options open, but i dont care bout her they way i used to when we were friends and i wanted her ass real bad

can u relate?
 

trajhenkhet

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Well it could be stress or depression. Either in large doses is not good for the ole libido. I don't know enough psychology nor enough of your situation to make a specific assesment, but those are possibilities.
 

Reto

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That happened to me once. Search the internet for impotency.

Taking ephedra can cause it. So can benedryl. I'm sure there is so many more.

Like you say if there's too mch on your mind. Exams? That might be it...
 

Aztec

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There you go! Fatigue will do it!



Are you on any prescription medications like antidepressants?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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drixsa

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to add quite a zing to your sex life u may want to add some marijuana

i cant tell you scientifically why but when you have sex or recieve oral it feels much better when you are on marijuana

i have herd the same thing bout extasy but that sh!t is a lil too hardcore for my style
 
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