"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Graphic details ahead: LOL it pains me to write the thread title. I'm in my late 20s. Beat it once a day usually but can only get it up with manual stimulation. I get morning wood sometimes but it doesn't last long, and I rarely ever pop spontaneous boners during the day.

Not being able to get hard easily definitely affects my confidence. Been with a few girls and I've let myself down. I have reason to suspect its a psychological thing and not physical. I also wonder if lack of performance reinforces itself due to anxiety. Could also be due to depression etc...

Anyone able to mentally "stimulate" a boner into happening? Ironically I hated getting wood when I was younger and wished it would settle down... Got my wish :-(

Greatly appreciate advice here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop whacking it / looking at porn (if you are).

What's your health like? Do you exercise/eat/sleep well?
 
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SteR said:
Stop whacking it / looking at porn (if you are).
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I went through something like this and ended up discovering it was the attraction level. I have pretty high aesthetic standards and have banged some pretty banging chicks in the past. When I was just shooting for numbers and had consecutive 5-7's in a row I was having this problem. I mean, it would eventually happen but took some work on their part. (And of course, once it happens once, you're going to be psychologically predisposed for the next time, since you'll be worrying about it.)

Then the next time I got with a 8.5, pants starting moving within seconds of physical contact. So if you're selling yourself short, just cut out the porn/whacking and wait for a girl who really does it for you visually/sexually. I bet you're problem will be solved.
 
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Are you getting enough zinc in your diet? Studies show most men do not get enough zinc, and it affects their testosterone levels. Agree with the others, stop whacking it to porn. Also, try taking extra zinc for a few days, I bet that will help as well.
 
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which ones do you use to buy online ,link ?
Thanks

Mr.Positive said:
taking extra zinc for a few days, I bet that will help as well.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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