"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Graphic details ahead: LOL it pains me to write the thread title. I'm in my late 20s. Beat it once a day usually but can only get it up with manual stimulation. I get morning wood sometimes but it doesn't last long, and I rarely ever pop spontaneous boners during the day.

Not being able to get hard easily definitely affects my confidence. Been with a few girls and I've let myself down. I have reason to suspect its a psychological thing and not physical. I also wonder if lack of performance reinforces itself due to anxiety. Could also be due to depression etc...

Anyone able to mentally "stimulate" a boner into happening? Ironically I hated getting wood when I was younger and wished it would settle down... Got my wish :-(

Greatly appreciate advice here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stop whacking it / looking at porn (if you are).

What's your health like? Do you exercise/eat/sleep well?
 
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SteR said:
Stop whacking it / looking at porn (if you are).
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I went through something like this and ended up discovering it was the attraction level. I have pretty high aesthetic standards and have banged some pretty banging chicks in the past. When I was just shooting for numbers and had consecutive 5-7's in a row I was having this problem. I mean, it would eventually happen but took some work on their part. (And of course, once it happens once, you're going to be psychologically predisposed for the next time, since you'll be worrying about it.)

Then the next time I got with a 8.5, pants starting moving within seconds of physical contact. So if you're selling yourself short, just cut out the porn/whacking and wait for a girl who really does it for you visually/sexually. I bet you're problem will be solved.
 
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Are you getting enough zinc in your diet? Studies show most men do not get enough zinc, and it affects their testosterone levels. Agree with the others, stop whacking it to porn. Also, try taking extra zinc for a few days, I bet that will help as well.
 
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which ones do you use to buy online ,link ?
Thanks

Mr.Positive said:
taking extra zinc for a few days, I bet that will help as well.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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