"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Epigenetics... you're not stuck with what you got.

Fuglydude

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This is a very interesting documentary about the emerging field of epigenetics. Its about an hour long and presents some intriguing ideas...

In short epigenetics deals with the field of inheritable changes that occur by some other mechanism other than changing the actual DNA sequence. It has to do with gene activation patterns/gene regulation patterns, and can actually be passed on to future generations. Originally the ideas were quite heretical, but its slowly being proven w/ data that's coming out.

In the light of this new knowledge, its even more important to take care of ourselves and not abuse our bodies to ensure that future generations inherit a good combination of activated genes. Also shows you that you're not necessarily stuck with that you're born with... The genome is simply the sequence of DNA you were born with, but the regulation of these genes is what makes up your phenotype (what you are). With proper nutrition and stimulation thru exercise you can activate the appropriate genes to create big, strong, lean and healthy physique.

Here's the vid:

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1128045835761675934#
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nature vs. Nurture!

its one of my favorite psych subjects. Sorry FD I haven't clicked the link yet, but how much of this applies to guys who have finished growing? (at least mostly growing, as in age 21+)
 

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Wow, didn't think what I study could be used here. You think there will be any foods available to amplify gene expression of muscles?
 
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