"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Entrance Test

Bussey

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I recently noticed that A LOT of new posters seem to talk like their experts. How about having a sign up test. If they pass they get in, no problem, if there answers suggest AFCness or Oneitis.. on their screenname, under where the post number is, it says "AFC Test Score" etc. Once they hit 150-200 posts or like 3 months, it goes away. This way old members can take it and pass, and new members will be taken as they are.

Credibility in posts is not something that is given.. it should be earned.

Just an idea...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Bussey
I recently noticed that A LOT of new posters seem to talk like their experts. How about having a sign up test. If they pass they get in, no problem, if there answers suggest AFCness or Oneitis.. on their screenname, under where the post number is, it says "AFC Test Score" etc. Once they hit 150-200 posts or like 3 months, it goes away. This way old members can take it and pass, and new members will be taken as they are.

Credibility in posts is not something that is given.. it should be earned.

Just an idea...
*Cough*Searchplease*Cough*
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Bussey
Haha my bad, I don't ever search for anything.
Then you have failed the entrance test. Go away.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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oh yeah and what kind of questions, people will just look up the stuff find it answer the question simple as that and if they do not do ok they will try again with a new name. Beings a DJ is more then knowing the theory, if i know i have to be confident and should not de desprate, does that make me a DJ.

and why would 200 posts or 3 months make some one a DJ some people just do not have a clue and they could have lots of posts and have been here a year and not know what they are talking about.

I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. -Groucho Marx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KnightRyder

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it'll be too much work/hassle . you 'd have lower posting as a result.
 

penkitten

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<---- look to the left


see the word registered?
see the date?

thats where you see when the person registered.

o wow , no search button required!!
 

Vincent

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god dammit!
 

CableLight

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This sorta thing was suggested like...a while ago...yeah.

Anyway...The whole "Entrance Test" thing isn't totally feasible unless you know someone who's going to put in the wrench time to not only write it up, have Allen implement it, but keep it updated as well. Also, the idea of having the "AFC Test Score" thing go away after a few months is only incentive for someone to go post-crazy. I think - if anything - if a person got a low test score that they would be required to take it again after some predetermined time span has passed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CobaltBlue

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
oh yeah and what kind of questions, people will just look up the stuff find it answer the question simple as that.
At least they'll be learning then!
 

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if there answers suggest AFCness or Oneitis
Youre implying that all of the bible is written in stone. Its not. There is more than one answer to many questions. And we were all AFCs in the beginning. The test wont tell us anything new.
 
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