AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
This is out of belief crazy and how women can be this disrespectful and entitled.
Thoughts?
Thoughts?
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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Entitled wife expect her man to pay a $700 bill for herself and her friends at restaurant
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Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
He should pay for no one, not even his gf that puts him in that situation expecting him to comply.
In such cases too much ruthlessness is not enough.
In such cases too much ruthlessness is not enough.
EyeBRollin
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He is in the wrong here. If he offered to host a birthday gathering for his girl and he knew her friends were coming he should expect to pay. The exception is if they are all married/in relationships and bringing their men with them. Don’t offer to host and not pay. I am sure his girlfriend told him ahead of time her girls were coming. Believe it or not, the ladies saying “you are the man at the table” are correct on this.
Now, IF they showed up and he had no idea any of them were coming that is different. Highly doubt that was the case with a party of that size.
EDIT: The birthday girl is not his wife? Now this is confusing. If he is a participant and not the host, it is not on him to pay. He should have respectfully declined to show up. Why is he out on a dinner party with all women? Let your girl be with her friends.
That is my take. If someone can clarify the facts.
If you host, you as the man pay. If just participating, decline and let your girl be with her friends. Either way he fvcked this up.
Now, IF they showed up and he had no idea any of them were coming that is different. Highly doubt that was the case with a party of that size.
EDIT: The birthday girl is not his wife? Now this is confusing. If he is a participant and not the host, it is not on him to pay. He should have respectfully declined to show up. Why is he out on a dinner party with all women? Let your girl be with her friends.
That is my take. If someone can clarify the facts.
If you host, you as the man pay. If just participating, decline and let your girl be with her friends. Either way he fvcked this up.
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