"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've noticed a trend with women are actually interested in hooking up and getting together:

they are always super enthusiastic about meeting up. They will go out of their way to meet, blowing off other people and cancelling/adapting whatever other plans they have.

The opposite is also true: when a woman is not interested in hooking up, there's a lack of enthusiasm and a lack of excitement. If it's hard to get a woman to agree to meet up, it's normally not worth it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Georgepithyou said:
More compliance means more interest. If she isn't cooperating, she simply isn't interested. No girl who is into you is going to be "busy".
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I have actually come to realise that the word "interest" isn't enough. When a girl wants to have sex with you, she's not just going to be interested in meeting, but excited.

Sometimes we talk about interest level, but really we should be talking about excitement level. That puts it into perspective when a girl starts talking about how busy she is or starts bullsheeting about this or that. If a girl is not excited to see you, there's really no point in meeting her at all.
 
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I think you're on to something with this. An excited woman is the only one who is going to give a positive return on the investment of time that goes into meeting her. A woman who isn't showing a lot of interest might just be interested in getting a free dinner (in non-covid times). At best going on a date with her is likely to be a waste of your time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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