"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crossboss

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A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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crossboss said:
A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
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no, unless you want to be in the LJBF Zone.
 
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It can either be a very good thing or a very bad thing.

It could be bad because you haven't made the move when you should on those girls, but they still want to be around you because, as they say, you keep them entertained. As ChrizZ said its pretty much the friend zone from there.

It could also be good because you could pretty much command attention in a group, being able to have first dips on any cutie you please.
 
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What should I do to be less entertaining?

I think it is just part of my personality. Should I act serious? Or charming? DJ BIBLE
 
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So with some of these girls...

Since I am guessing I am in LJBF zone, it is too late to make moves on them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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