"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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crossboss said:
A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
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no, unless you want to be in the LJBF Zone.
 
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It can either be a very good thing or a very bad thing.

It could be bad because you haven't made the move when you should on those girls, but they still want to be around you because, as they say, you keep them entertained. As ChrizZ said its pretty much the friend zone from there.

It could also be good because you could pretty much command attention in a group, being able to have first dips on any cutie you please.
 
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What should I do to be less entertaining?

I think it is just part of my personality. Should I act serious? Or charming? DJ BIBLE
 
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So with some of these girls...

Since I am guessing I am in LJBF zone, it is too late to make moves on them?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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