"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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crossboss said:
A lot of girls, call me entertaining. Is this a good thing?
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no, unless you want to be in the LJBF Zone.
 
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It can either be a very good thing or a very bad thing.

It could be bad because you haven't made the move when you should on those girls, but they still want to be around you because, as they say, you keep them entertained. As ChrizZ said its pretty much the friend zone from there.

It could also be good because you could pretty much command attention in a group, being able to have first dips on any cutie you please.
 
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What should I do to be less entertaining?

I think it is just part of my personality. Should I act serious? Or charming? DJ BIBLE
 
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So with some of these girls...

Since I am guessing I am in LJBF zone, it is too late to make moves on them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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