"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Entertaining yet tricky...

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You really can just do anything.

When its time to go home, tell her to follow you, go to your car, let her in and drive home.

Was that hard?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Comeback Kid

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HolyG said:
Step 1 - Isolate

Step 2 - Kiss her

Stop over analyzing like we're your girlfriends. Go Kiss her. now.
She's looking for a guy with a ****. Go prove to her you have one, before she moves on.

Girls forgive the guy who's too forward. But never the one who pussies out.
I agree with you here. However, if I try this at work AND IT BACKFIRES, I'm fired in 3 seconds. That wouldn't be good. :down: However, if we're out of work, then I have some more leeway and can try some things.

Any thoughts regarding my previous post (#19)?
 

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It's the final week of the internship (then again, there weren't many weeks to begin with), meaning I will be making a late push. How I plan on doing this, I'm not sure.

I learned tonight my "day game" is better than my "night game." I never get all that drunk at bars, so trying to get with drunk chicks is tougher for me...I'm too over their head (too coherent). I feel sort of lost actually, when everyone else is drunk and I'm not. I got to the bar once this girl was DRUNK, and had 4-5 guys hitting on her. I'm not going to step in and go hit on her too, so I moved onto other people I knew and went to the bar with. I don't think she got with any of the guys, but I'm not 100%.

For tomorrow, I'm thinking I can grab her a small coffee on the way to work - it'd be a surprise - since she LOVES coffee and is a mope during the morning due to being tired lol. I'd get myself something too since I "was in the area." After she thanks me, perhaps I ask her out?

One sticking point for me is that I'm good in building rapport and comfort, but I can't do this "one night stand" stuff to save my life. Maybe it's just the way I was raised, but I always want to get to know the girl a bit.
 

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The Comeback Kid said:
For tomorrow, I'm thinking I can grab her a small coffee on the way to work - it'd be a surprise - since she LOVES coffee and is a mope during the morning due to being tired lol. I'd get myself something too since I "was in the area." After she thanks me, perhaps I ask her out?

Have you been paying attention to a single thing we've said?

Have you read a single thread on this site? You've been here since 2005 and you're talking about asking her out?

I GUARANTEE that, if by some miracle you aren't already in the friendzone yet, you will be after "asking her out" tomorrow.

Read the bible, take a bootcamp, start getting some approaches in. You need to learn how the game works.
 
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