"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Entertaining yet tricky...

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You really can just do anything.

When its time to go home, tell her to follow you, go to your car, let her in and drive home.

Was that hard?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Comeback Kid

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HolyG said:
Step 1 - Isolate

Step 2 - Kiss her

Stop over analyzing like we're your girlfriends. Go Kiss her. now.
She's looking for a guy with a ****. Go prove to her you have one, before she moves on.

Girls forgive the guy who's too forward. But never the one who pussies out.
I agree with you here. However, if I try this at work AND IT BACKFIRES, I'm fired in 3 seconds. That wouldn't be good. :down: However, if we're out of work, then I have some more leeway and can try some things.

Any thoughts regarding my previous post (#19)?
 

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It's the final week of the internship (then again, there weren't many weeks to begin with), meaning I will be making a late push. How I plan on doing this, I'm not sure.

I learned tonight my "day game" is better than my "night game." I never get all that drunk at bars, so trying to get with drunk chicks is tougher for me...I'm too over their head (too coherent). I feel sort of lost actually, when everyone else is drunk and I'm not. I got to the bar once this girl was DRUNK, and had 4-5 guys hitting on her. I'm not going to step in and go hit on her too, so I moved onto other people I knew and went to the bar with. I don't think she got with any of the guys, but I'm not 100%.

For tomorrow, I'm thinking I can grab her a small coffee on the way to work - it'd be a surprise - since she LOVES coffee and is a mope during the morning due to being tired lol. I'd get myself something too since I "was in the area." After she thanks me, perhaps I ask her out?

One sticking point for me is that I'm good in building rapport and comfort, but I can't do this "one night stand" stuff to save my life. Maybe it's just the way I was raised, but I always want to get to know the girl a bit.
 

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The Comeback Kid said:
For tomorrow, I'm thinking I can grab her a small coffee on the way to work - it'd be a surprise - since she LOVES coffee and is a mope during the morning due to being tired lol. I'd get myself something too since I "was in the area." After she thanks me, perhaps I ask her out?

Have you been paying attention to a single thing we've said?

Have you read a single thread on this site? You've been here since 2005 and you're talking about asking her out?

I GUARANTEE that, if by some miracle you aren't already in the friendzone yet, you will be after "asking her out" tomorrow.

Read the bible, take a bootcamp, start getting some approaches in. You need to learn how the game works.
 
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