"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Enough of the mucho ****

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Sammo

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This board is turning in to boyproblems.com and the only advice people are giving out is "bash some guy and move on from the girl". What where concerned with here is seduction in high school and improving ones life.

Not trying to be a hard-ass. There are instances when a man must fight, but get this: the times are changing. The dominant male isnt the one who can bash the most people, those kind of guys dont attract girls - they ussually just scare them away. Believe it or not, girls DONT want to be around a guy who has a short temper.

People who get in to fights so easy are incredibly insecure. They have issues. Your not 'cool' if you fight, your just a **** head.

Nothing is more attractive then a calculated, relaxed, confident, and care-free man.

A bit of advice guys; dont spend your high school years trying to show everyone how tough you are, try having some fun instead.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Hawtness

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Yeah, living your life in happiness really pays off.
 
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I've been saying this forever but all the macho b*tches think it's stupid. :rolleyes:

Maybe they'll listen to you sammo. Glad to see you've taken an interest in the forums again ;)
 
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I agree that this board is too much 4 days registered people saying "Does she like me?".


But what would you like to see? Stuff like Fitch, Anthony. etc. showing improvements in life and conversations?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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Missed the point Bling.
 
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you read my mind sammo.

but im not for the bump, cause all the stuff in our bible is philisopical and that the bible doesnt preach that you should beat people senseless either
 
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Originally posted by Bling
I agree that this board is too much 4 days registered people saying "Does she like me?".


But what would you like to see? Stuff like Fitch, Anthony. etc. showing improvements in life and conversations?
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Holy crap I've heard of people missing the point before, but if you're in the US the point is somewhere in japan. Wow. Just wow.
 
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I hate fighting also, and I could give a **** if that makes me look weak. I think that alot of people wouldn't actually go up and have a fight with a guy over something like a girl. Even if it was a girl I was going out with and she was cheating on me with some guy if I can't please a girl thats no need to get insecure about it and act all macho.

In the end theres two options:
1)get in a fight about 1 girl, maybe end up in hospital for a few weeks(a bit dramatic but it is a possibility).
Outcome:You're in hospital, guy gets ****ed by girl, you dont get any girls for weeks.
2)get a better looking girl
Outcome: Guy gets ****ed by girl, you get ****ed by better girl everyones happy.:D

I know which Id prefer.
 
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