"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Enough of the mucho ****

Sammo

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This board is turning in to boyproblems.com and the only advice people are giving out is "bash some guy and move on from the girl". What where concerned with here is seduction in high school and improving ones life.

Not trying to be a hard-ass. There are instances when a man must fight, but get this: the times are changing. The dominant male isnt the one who can bash the most people, those kind of guys dont attract girls - they ussually just scare them away. Believe it or not, girls DONT want to be around a guy who has a short temper.

People who get in to fights so easy are incredibly insecure. They have issues. Your not 'cool' if you fight, your just a **** head.

Nothing is more attractive then a calculated, relaxed, confident, and care-free man.

A bit of advice guys; dont spend your high school years trying to show everyone how tough you are, try having some fun instead.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, living your life in happiness really pays off.
 

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I've been saying this forever but all the macho b*tches think it's stupid. :rolleyes:

Maybe they'll listen to you sammo. Glad to see you've taken an interest in the forums again ;)
 

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I agree that this board is too much 4 days registered people saying "Does she like me?".


But what would you like to see? Stuff like Fitch, Anthony. etc. showing improvements in life and conversations?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LikRetsam

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Missed the point Bling.
 

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you read my mind sammo.

but im not for the bump, cause all the stuff in our bible is philisopical and that the bible doesnt preach that you should beat people senseless either
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Bling
I agree that this board is too much 4 days registered people saying "Does she like me?".


But what would you like to see? Stuff like Fitch, Anthony. etc. showing improvements in life and conversations?
Holy crap I've heard of people missing the point before, but if you're in the US the point is somewhere in japan. Wow. Just wow.
 
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I hate fighting also, and I could give a **** if that makes me look weak. I think that alot of people wouldn't actually go up and have a fight with a guy over something like a girl. Even if it was a girl I was going out with and she was cheating on me with some guy if I can't please a girl thats no need to get insecure about it and act all macho.

In the end theres two options:
1)get in a fight about 1 girl, maybe end up in hospital for a few weeks(a bit dramatic but it is a possibility).
Outcome:You're in hospital, guy gets ****ed by girl, you dont get any girls for weeks.
2)get a better looking girl
Outcome: Guy gets ****ed by girl, you get ****ed by better girl everyones happy.:D

I know which Id prefer.
 
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