“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Enlightening: How I ****ed up and now I hate myself

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Every morning I go to work by bus. So one morning while I waited for the bus, this gorgeous girl came up and stood right next to me. I mean she was really hot, about HB9, but her ass, it was incredible. As assman I can truly say, it was the best ass I have ever seen.

We had some very great eye contact going on, and I could see subtle smile on her face, but I could see that she was nervous. Honestly, I think she was attracted to me, because I could read many IOIs.

I wanted to approach her, but there was a problem - my mother. She often goes on the same bus as me and I feel very uncomfortable to pick up girls while standing next to my mother. So I basically stepped back and didn't approach.

So every morning for 2 weeks we were always standing together: HB9, me and my mother. It was like a torture, we had some EC with HB9. We sometimes stood very close and she was grinding her hips on my hand, etc...

But then in the 3rd week my mother wasn't there. I was standing at the bus stop and I was alone. I was very, very nervous. In my mind I was planning the approach. Then she came. I thought I could approach her, but I stood like a pole, I couldn't move.

Everything that I thought, I could say, seemed dumb. I did want to come off as confident to her, but I couldn't come up with anything. I was really scared. As I found out my mother was not the main problem, the cold approach was. At the parties, I never have the problem to approach girls, even the very hot ones. But with this cold approach I was just ****ed up! So we got on the bus and stood besides.
Her eyes were literally saying, "Talk to me, just do it!". But I stood there like a dork, it was so miserable. Then my stop came and I got off.

All day I was cursing myself, and swore to make a move next time.
Next day came the next time. But, when I saw her, I forgot everything that I had planned. Again, I missed it!
For next few days I had a chance to make a move, but every time I chickened out and as the days went by, I felt more confident to approach her, because I was sick of absence of my balls.
So came another Monday and I swore, I would approach no matter what.
I went to the bus stop, with smile on my face, because today was the day, I AM GONNA APROACH. But guess what? She wasn't there. There was no HB9 at the bus stop. She was gone. Week passed and I never saw her again. I had officially ****ED UP!
So now I hate myself, because I will never know... maybe she was the one, maybe she was my future wife, or maybe she was just a good LTR material... But the saddest thing is, I WILL NEVER KNOW!
As you can see, maybe I have developed one-itis to this girl, but you know I will never know, how it could have worked out...
Why didn't I approach her? I had nothing to lose, maybe I would lose some confidence, if she turned me down, but I better lose a little confidence than never know...

So my advice to you guys is, NEVER MISS AN OPPORTUNITY! I mean it's not only with girls, in general in life there are many opportunities that you miss that you will regret later...

Now I have swore to my self, that I will pursue any opportunity that will come along! That's it!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Everyone does it....the fear of the approach is one of the hardest things to overcome in your game....I admit..im not over it myself! I hate cold approaches. I have no problem gaming girls. I have about a 90% success rate on all girls i try and game with (Seriouslly).

I have the same issue thow. I always feel like whatever i say will not be right....

The other way i see it that is negative is like a cold call sale. They piss you off....You didnt enquire about new "whatever" so why are you calling me trying to sell it to me wasting my time.

I know with girls....they wont approach even if they want it....i think its all my mind trying to trick me out of it because of my own fear.


Strange thing is.....when i do cold approach it always seems ok.

Fvcking fear of cold approach :box:
 

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if this is the reason that you hate yourself, than life is going to eat you up and spit you out.

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LOL i feel u bro.

At least u got a decent excuse, ur mom bein there an all hahahah. damn that blows son lose ya mama infact send her my way ill give her a ride :crazy:

jk son jk
 

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i kno exatly how u feel bro...
this iz a perfect example of living ur life ( hell mine 2 ) in regret

THAT IZ EXACTLY Y I LIVE EVERYDAY LIKE IT'S MY LAST & TAKE CHANCES
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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