"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Latinoman said:
By the way...engineering might be the only field in which your undergraduate studies is more important than your graduate (Masters). Furthermore, you don't really need a graduate degree as engineering you can actually take couple exams to become LICENSE (eg. Professional Engineer).
that's not quite accurate, ever since 2000, the dot com bust, and all the outsourcing, the job market has gotten way more competitive. I'm sitting in class with guys whose bosses MADE them go back to school to get an MS

and in the US, the PE License is something thats given emphasis if you wanna work government jobs or do consulting. If you wanna work industry, like design IPODS or something, that Masters degree is way more important

SmoothTalker said:
All I will say is, do not do it for the money or some other superficial reason. Unless you really enjoy this stuff (I didn't..) you will hate it.
definately... school is a challenging grind consisting of mostly applied math, and your career will a sausagefest with the potential for long hours and "take your work home with you" situations
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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