"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EnErGy!!

DJ_in_making

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I was just wondering, can people actually feel someone's energy. I always hear that energy can be sensed but is it true? Is it like a sixth sense or something?

I ask this because some days for whatever reasons my energy would be very low, and I feel like I have trouble making interactions or being fun in the interactions. Certain days would include:

-I woke up late and feel like the day is wasted
-I feel sick
-I didn't shower
-I'm sad
-I'm bored
-Biorhythms (??)
-Sometimes for absolutely no reason

I was thinking, even if I am having one of these low energy days, can I play it off by 'acting' and pretending to have a lot of energy, or like I asked earlier, can people 'sense' that stuff?

And also, does anyone do anything particularly to get out of these low-in-energy days??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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organizedconfusion

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this sounds horrible but you could just dump that lack of energy on someone else and just steal theirs.Talk to someone really happy and bright and make them feel down like you do.Zapping peoples energy is a quick way of doing it.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Yes, people can sense when you're feeling tired. Even if you pretend to be cheerful and happy, people can still 'feel' your negative vibe. Its nothing spiritual, simply your body language, tone of voice, and attitude that shows.

Just get more sleep, eat healthy, etc.
 
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